"Ten Promises" a guide born from experience by Manisha Punwani

"Ten Promises" by Manisha Punwani- Book Review

BOOK REVIEWED BY AKHILA SAROHA (INDIA'S TOP 10)   

Parenting has always been one of the most critical aspects in a human’s life. As important as it is for parents, it is far more important for the kids as they would be the end product of the education and upbringing they receive. Consequently, catering to the needs of this challenge can only be done by learning from psychological insights and learnings. In "Ten Promises: Intentions That Shape Committed Parenting," Manisha Punwani, M.D., offers readers a deeply insightful and transformative exploration of the profound journey of parenthood. Through her blend of clinical expertise, personal anecdotes, and compassionate wisdom, Punwani presents a comprehensive guide that transcends conventional parenting literature, inviting readers to embark on a journey of self-discovery, empathy, and growth.


At the core of Punwani's narrative is the recognition of parenting as a deeply human experience, one that is marked by vulnerability, imperfection, and immense love. Drawing on her years of experience as a Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist, Punwani navigates the intricacies of parenthood with sensitivity and depth, guiding readers through the complexities of raising children in an ever-evolving world. Her interactions, professional learning and insights find way into the text and reflect in the clarity with which she expresses and brings it down to 10 promises. It is this insight that becomes a treasure for the would-be parents as well as parents of today. Furthermore, “Ten Promises” as a title resonates with the hearts of parents and kids alike in the sense that they sound just like a conversation that is aimed to guide readers on a better path.


One of the most resonant themes in "Ten Promises" is Punwani's emphasis on the importance of authenticity and honesty in parenting. She encourages readers to embrace vulnerability and transparency, recognizing that true connection is forged through genuine communication and mutual respect. By modeling honesty and self-reflection, parents create a nurturing environment where children feel safe to express themselves authentically and develop a strong sense of self-worth. 


Moreover, Punwani explores the transformative power of resilience and self-compassion in parenting. She acknowledges the immense pressures and expectations that parents face, urging readers to prioritize their own well-being and emotional resilience. Through poignant anecdotes and practical guidance, Punwani empowers parents to navigate the inevitable challenges of parenthood with grace and resilience, fostering a sense of inner strength and acceptance. Throughout the book, Punwani underscores the importance of fostering secure attachments and nurturing environments where children can thrive emotionally, socially, and intellectually. She explores the profound impact of early experiences on shaping children's development, urging parents to prioritize connection and empathy in their interactions with their children. By fostering strong bonds of trust and affection, parents lay the foundation for healthy relationships built on mutual respect and understanding.


Additionally, Punwani delves into the complexities of family dynamics, offering practical strategies for navigating conflicts, establishing boundaries, and fostering a sense of unity within the family unit. She emphasizes the importance of effective communication, active listening, and empathy in building strong familial bonds that withstand the test of time. By creating a supportive and inclusive family culture, parents cultivate an environment where children feel valued, heard, and supported as they navigate the ups and downs of life.




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